It’s a world of different people with different opinions. We make relationships in our entire life but sometimes small mistakes can destroy our relationships in seconds.
Friends are precious gifts of God to us. We take birth in different families and culture yet we choose particular persons to be our friends. I think loyalty and honesty are keys to best relations.
Priya is a shy girl who does not mix up with others easily. She made few friends in her colony. One of her friend Madhu always criticize her for being true and honest. Priya cared for her a lot but when she heard from others that Madhu makes fun of her ,she could not bear this and broke her relations with Madhu. Madhu was not doing this purposely but her jokes hurt Priya and now they don’t talk to each other.
Relationships are easy to make but it takes your patience and energy to take it to the highest level. I don’t think anyone should lie in a relationship. When a person comes to know about the lies, relationships begin to rot.
May be you don’t think the same way your friend does but it’s good to understand your friend’s nature before saying anything about her.
Some people are over emotional and get hurt easily. If you are choosing someone to be your friend , you choose his or her qualities and defects too. It would be sad if you criticize them for their behaviour afterwards. After all we are not perfect in every field. Forgiveness is important in every relationship. We must learn to forget and forgive mistakes. Avoiding bad comments and misbehaviours can save our precious relations with family and friends.
In husband and wife’s relationships , many couples don’t understand the value of being truthful. In my view , we must have the courage to tell our partners the truth in every situation. If you do any mistake and hide from your partner, he or she may come know at certain level of time and at that time you won’t be able to save your relationship.
It’s simple to be truthful and honest rather than telling lies whole day and night. Relations are hard earned and most valuable so please be careful in maintaining your relationship with friends or family.
Contributed by: Hritu Sodhi