Don’t be surprised to read the heading. I am not a research scholar but it is my general observation. After spending 45 years successfully on this planet, I came to this conclusion.
Actors are true examples of what I want to say exactly. Priyanka Chopra, Preity Zinta, Urmila, Farha Khan , Zeenat Aman..list is endless. Males love mature and elderly women mostly. Sometimes they choose to get married early and find out lately that girls love make up, money and jewellery more than them. Mature women are emotionally strong and can hide their frustration better than young girls. Mostly mature women handle males better than young girls.
Indian boys love their moms the most who pamper them so much that these males can’t accept girls who need their attention all age time.
Males are careless free birds and if girls try to cling with them all the time, they start escaping from them. Life is real but mostly girls live in dream world. A girl’s prince charming is always ready to fulfill her demands but in real world males have to perform different tasks. It makes them rough and tough, they need only relaxation and space from girls which they often fail to give.
Mature females have crossed the age of pampering, they know the value of time and money. They don’t stop males to chase their dreams.
I have seen in real life also that males give preference to elderly women because they feel more secure with them. Actually there is a small baby in every man. He does not want to show his actual side and expects from a lady to know this without exposing himself.
Every age has it’s own benefits. Elderly women focus on their careers and know the value of time management. Nagging and scolding irritates a man so much that he can destroy his family in search of a good companion who never fights on silly topics. For a man peace and love are more important than anything else.
I have seen many men who take divorce in middle age. May be it’s incorrect in some people’s opinion but it is important to have a healthy life and off course every one has a right to live life in his own way.
It does not mean that every relationship ends up badly with immature girls. It’s simply my observation that men generally fell in love with elderly women. It is very common in foreign countries. Even Indian guys are changing their mindsets. Let’s not make it more complicated and leave it upon individual choice.
Life is one and in my opinion it’s good to choose your partner without getting obsessed by society pressure. After all it’s your life and it is better to choose right person rather than blaming others for the rest of your whole life. If you can’t marry an elderly lady, at least you must have a friend of mature age who can guide you in many ways. It’s not a big issue to have a crush on elderly women.
Neither I am taking side of men who do this nor I am refusing the idea completely. Wishing Priyanka Chopra a happy life and future. For other couples it’s just an opinion to follow your hearts with pride that at least you have the courage to break the old trends.