“Sincere apologies are for those that make them, not for those to whom they are made.” – Greg Le Mond
What make a good apology? Making a truly reliable apology is one of the most challenging relationship skills for most people, it is so very difficult to admit wrong doing or they can’t keep their ego aside. When you say sorry to someone that doesn’t mean that you are wrong that means that you value a person more than being right.
Take your time and think the purpose of your saying sorry. It’s important to have the ability to recognize our own mistakes. (Nobody is perfect) we all sometimes hurt someone in some point in your lives.
But this is hard for someone to deem we all were thought that an apology should be an automatic response. Blaming on someone else is very easy. Making excuse on a topic is also very easy, but it is very difficult to blame yourself completely.
I learn it from my childhood friend as we grew older we started competition and each other down and we always end up by hurting each other down and we never apologize that the reason why our friendship broke . Now I really wish I could go back in the past and fix our friendship, now I learned to apologize because this is the only quick fix remedy. It shows the acknowledge but also open the way to forgive, the sorry seems to tiny words but this is very powerful mantra.
So many people live their lives holding grudges when the truth is only one anger in them. Other simply gives up on them and moves on. But the power of “I am sorry’’ can reverse years of hurt and a lifetime of guilt. It is that powerful and important.Views in the article are solely of the author Ms Raaisha Upadhyay