Come on guys! Its really true! We judge without even thinking twice.  I really don’t understand this human tendency. Why people judge others without understanding their relationships?

One day my friend Shuchita came to pick me from home. My neighbour Varma aunty immediately called my mom to inquire about Shuchita. My mother told her the truth that we are classmates. Mrs. Varma tried to convince my mom that its not good to believe on youngsters at this age.

She hardly knows anything about me. I have studied in a reputed school in which we were being taught in a different way.

I belong to Chandigarh which is India’s first well planned city. You may judge the residents of Chandigarh by their style statement only but they are well behaved, cultured and educated people. We don’t get much time to think about others in big cities. I have been born and brought up in a classy environment. We never interfere in others life without their permission. I really feel astonished to see the poor mentality of some people .

I have not learnt to see Shuchita as an alien. She is just another human being for me. I can’t judge anyone whom I never get a chance to interact with.

Many parents feel that youngsters disobey them. Do they ever have tried to find the main cause?

Its not that we have build up the thick wall of silence around us. I would love to discuss about my first crush with my mom. She has given me the courage to introduce my female friends to her without any hesitation. I can’t lie to my mom when I come late from college.

Its not easy to break the habit of judging others in a day. Mostly people judge females by their clothes. Shorts and skirts attract males so much that they forget their culture and start commenting on females characters. Bare legs may be look odd to you but it does not give you permission to stare.

I am a boy and I have never talked rubbish about any girl. Girls trust those boys who give them respect in any condition. A girl may be shy or bold but a boy must never cross his limits. If you can drink or smoke without any shame, she has the right to live life on her own way.

From now onwards stop judging others together with me.

Its not about learning the art of living , its about giving others the right to breathe in the fresh air of independence.